Am I being bullied at work? Or is this me overthinking things?

2021.12.04 04:19 yellowappleredlemon Am I being bullied at work? Or is this me overthinking things?

Okay so to start off, I'm a 20 year old girl and have been at this job for about 4 months.
I have SA and idk why but it's always been wayyy worse around guys. Like it's silly I know but unless they are family, I just feel so on guard and uncomfortable around them. I've never had guy friends. My friends have always been girls.
So at my work place all the servers are girls but the people who make the food are all guys. So I don't really interact with them all that often cos they are out the back cooking, but sometimes you have to go out there to get stuff. So I say hi to them and stuff but nothing else. I am so embarrassed to say this because now after what happened I feel like a total idiot, but I thought one of them was cute (let's call him B) because he would always say hi to me and was the only one who was nice to me, I.e. if he saw me looking for something he would ask what I was looking for and tell me where it was, or one time I was taking shit out of the oven but I put way too much stuff on and almost burned myself so he asked if I needed help and helped me out, which I really appreciated cause I legit felt like I was gonna have a panic attack and start crying cos I was afraid of burning myself.
Anyways this is where stuff starts happening that makes me feel like I'm being bullied, like there's definitely not a "friendly banter vibe" more of an "intimidation vibe" to all this. But I wanted to share as maybe this is just my SA putting everything in a negative perspective?
Okay so the first instance happened a few weeks ago. I was again taking stuff out of the oven to put in the shop and one of the guys (let's call him S) comes over to me, sort of lifts his shirt up to fan himself and then he goes "sorry (my name) it's just it's pretty hot in here isn't it?" And I was kind of confused as to why he was talking to me so I was like "yeah the ovens are pretty hot?" And then he goes "and it's not just cause B is in here". And I felt so fucking mortified when he said that cause B was in the room and also I was like how does he know?! But I just didn't look at him or respond and kept doing the task at hand. And then he's still standing there staring at me, so he's like "B is a pretty attractive guy isn't he?" And again I don't say anything cause this is literally the most embarrassing moment of my life. And then after a few seconds he starts pissing himself laughing to the other guys and said something like "she didn't say anything!!" The rest of that shift my anxiety was so high, I felt so embarrassed and was on the verge of tears the whole time and as soon as I left and got in my car I just started crying the drive home thinking about how I wanted to quit my job cause of how mortifying that was. I told my friends and they said this guy is a dickhead and I shouldn't let him get to me.
So I go back to work like 2 days later and I just act as if nothing has happened.
Okay so I fucking hate S because of what he did, like that was so fucking embarrassing, mortifying and honestly childish. I wish I could punch him in his face. And I think ordinarily I would stand up for myself and be like "fuck off" but because it's in the workplace I feel really uncomfortable about doing that, like I have to be professional because I am getting paid to do a job.
So for a few weeks nothing like that happened it was just smaller things. Like anytime I have to interact with B the guys will all just start laughing including B and its fucking humiliating. And S anytime I say anything to him, will again just start laughing at me as if I am the funniest person in the world. And they are definitely laughing AT me not with me. Like the vibe is definitely that I'm the weird kid they are all laughing at. Oh and this is weird but they never look me in the eyes, like its weirdly noticeable. Like when I'm asking them questions they will look away and laugh? But will never actually make eye contact with me.
Okay so this next incident happened about a week ago. I was at work and we were super busy because we were a staff member short so I was having to do 2 jobs at once so I was super stressed and was behind on what I was doing. The phone rings and obviously I have to answer it so I do and its some guys wanting to pre-order drinks so I was like yeah sure. I asked him what he wanted and roughly how far away he was and the phone call was almost done and then he goes "do u guys do delivery?" And I was super confused cos he told me he wanted the coffees in mugs to have here and that he was only 1 minute away. So I was like "yeah we do uber eats?" And then he's like "do you deliver to behind (name of my workplace)?" And I was superrr confused like my brain wasn't working I was like wtf why does this man want me to deliver coffees in mugs to behind my own workplace?? So I was like "sorry you wanted them delivered where...??" And then he's like "it's B from work" and I heard them out the back pissing themselves laughing. I realised that I had been prank called so I was like "wow so funny" and hung up cos I was highkey pissed. I didn't make their coffees, another girl did but yeah that just again made me feel so embarrassed.
And also this is really random but it's something I noticed when I first started working there. We had to make them coffees and whenever i would bring them out the back, I didn't know the guys names, so I would just yell out the name of the coffee and put it down. B always ordered a flat white and whenever I would call out that specific order S would start laughing as if that were hilarious????
So like from an outsiders perspective, what is happening here? Am I being bullied? Are they trying to have friendly banter with me??? And it's weird cos like they are nice to me sometimes, and they both say hi and bye to me but like when they are together they just laugh at me and it feels so humiliating. I don't know their ages but I'd guess B is 24 or 26 and S is 23?
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